I’m not a suburban housewife, so I can’t speak for this coveted cohort. But it’s a safe bet that far fewer women consider themselves suburban housewives than President Trump seems to think.
Trump has begun wooing these voters amid reports that his Democratic presidential foe, Joe Biden, has a commanding lead among female voters—especially now that Biden has named a Black woman, Sen. Kamala Harris, as his running mate. “The ‘suburban housewife’ will be voting for me,” Trump tweeted on Aug. 12. “They want safety & are thrilled that I ended the long running program where low income housing would invade their neighborhoods. Biden would reinstall it, in a bigger form.”
For anybody who needs a translation, “low-income housing” is code for minorities and immigrants who are most likely to inhabit it. When Trump addresses the “suburban housewife,” he obviously thinks he’s speaking to a married white woman with kids who doesn’t have or want a paying job and worries about non-white families moving to her neighborhood. How many such women are there?
Some, probably. But the placidly domesticated TV mom from the 1950s has become something of a rarity, and wasn’t even all that common back then. “Trump is nostalgic for this TV version of events that never really existed,” says sociologist Sarah Jane Glynn of the left-leaning Center for American Progress. “The majority of women under 65 work, and most mothers work. And for immigrant families, working-class families, and women of color that was never their reality.”
Men participate in the labor force more than women, but the gap has been narrowing for decades. The latest numbers show the labor force participation rate is 67.1% for men and 56% for women. That includes everybody over 16, whether they’re parents or not.
Mothers work at a higher rate than women overall. Census data shows that the portion of mothers who work at a paying job rose from 56.3% in 1976 to 69.6% in 2017, the last year for which data is available. Forty-one percent of mothers are sole or primary breadwinners, earning at least half the total family income. Another 23% of mothers are “co-breadwinners” who earn at least 25% of the family income.
Oversimplification of suburbs
It’s hard to break down these numbers according to who lives in cities, suburbs and rural areas. But here, too, Trump seems to be stuck on the oversimplified notion of suburbs as white-only enclaves. “White flight” has definitely been a real phenomenon, with wealthier whites abandoning cities for suburbs with better schools and fewer challenges. But recent trends have included gentrification and urbanization, with wealthy whites going the other direction and even threatening to push minorities out of some urban areas as living costs rise.