What It’s Really Like to Retire Early

Retiring early might seem like a dream come true. But that moment when you actually leave a job with a steady paycheck may make you feel more nervous than overjoyed that you’re saying goodbye to the daily grind. At least, that was the case for Carl, who left his regular job in his 40s.

“It was pretty terrifying,” Carl said of the day he told his boss he was retiring. It was April 13, 2017, and he was just 43 years old. He had been a computer programmer for 20 years.

In fact, Carl, who only uses his first name when he writes online to protect his family’s privacy, had been working since he was 14, when he got his first job at McDonald’s. He had to pay for college on his own, so he juggled classes and a job and worked during spring and summer breaks.

Once he got his first “real” job as a computer programmer after college, he was the guy who came in early and stayed late — in part because he liked working and earning money. But the real driving force for Carl was the financial insecurity he experienced as a child. His family never had a lot of money while he was growing up, and his dad often was laid off from jobs. “When I started to work, I never wanted to be in that position,” he said.

So for someone who likes the security of a paycheck, it was hard not to worry whether early retirement was the right move. As Carl puts it though, he forced himself off the cliff and hasn’t regretted it. Here’s how he made the leap to early retirement.

It Took a Bad Day at Work

No one in Carl’s family had stopped working before age 62 or 65, so early retirement wasn’t even on his radar — that is, until one day in early October 2012, when he was 37. “I had a really miserable day at work,” he said. “Before that day, I never thought about early retirement.”

He was worried that he was going to be fired because a bad bug had been discovered in some programming code he had written. “I fired up Google, and I typed in there: ‘How do I leave my job early?'” Carl said. One of the top results was the blog Mr. Money Mustache, which advocates financial independence through living simply, spending less and saving a lot.

“The first thing I thought was ‘this is some kind of scam,'” Carl said. “Then I started reading through the math of this and realized this is all true.”

It Took Some Serious Saving

When figuring out how to retire early, Carl decided to use the 4 percent rule. This strategy assumes that if you can live off 4 percent of your investments in the first year of retirement, your savings should last 30 years if you maintain that steady withdrawal rate. So if he was going to spend $40,000 his first year in retirement, he would need to save $1 million.