We love bosses who brag about their accomplishments at work–and loathe colleagues who do the same, surprising new research by INSEAD shows
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Nothing is more annoying than someone bragging about their success. Right? Not necessarily so, according to new research conducted at INSEAD. When bosses brag, it can inspire their reports to put more effort into their own work. Specifically, when bosses, whom employees regard as role models, brag about their work accomplishments, their subordinates report feeling more inspired and motivated.

However, it’s entirely another story when we hear our peers at work brag–their accomplishments threaten our ego. If they managed to achieve that success, why haven’t we? It is triggering.

When a role model mentions one of their achievements, we tend to appraise it differently. Their higher rank in the organization makes us think that they have earned their success. When they share work-relevant positive stories about themselves, this information becomes a roadmap for people who aspire to achieve similar success. Our findings are in line with recent research showing that observers are much more receptive to self-promotion when it is framed as a journey toward achieving success rather than mere bragging about end results.

Bragging is in the eye of the beholder

The benefits of self-promotion can be seen in various spheres. For instance, social media influencers can garner likes, comments, and even hundreds of thousands of dollars with a single self-promoting post.

In the past, much of the research about self-promotion focused on what self-promoters stand to gain or lose. For instance, does bragging help when pitching to investors? (Answer: Yes, you should do it.) In our research, we looked at the affective and emotional impact of self-promotion on those who witness it.

We ran nine experimental studies involving some 2,600 participants in the U.S., U.K., and Singapore. Work was always the supplied context of our experiments. Across studies, subordinates reported feeling hopeful and inspired when they observed a superior engaging in self-promotion. However, when their own peers (or subordinates) bragged in the exact same way, we observed no such aspirational effect. In this case, our results align with research that found self-promoters were perceived as arrogant (perhaps highly competent, but mostly arrogant).

In some of our studies, we asked participants to describe real-life instances where they witnessed self-promotion at work. In other studies, we asked them to consider how they would feel in various hypothetical situations. For example, in one study, participants watched a 20-second video in which a “colleague” explained how she had been selected to lead an important project.