How to Lose Properly

Talking Points:

-Losing is an inevitable part of trading

-One loss can wipe away numerous gains of many winners

-Traders need to learn to lose properly in order to find consistent profitability

The only thing that a trader can ever really be assured of is the fact that they are going to take losses. It’s an inevitable part of the game.

Most new traders try to avoid this, and they try to manage their losing positions in the hope that the trade might come back to break-even – if only so that they don’t have to see a loss.

But eventually, it almost always works out the same. One of the losing positions that the trader is trying to manage gets away from them… and the loss becomes much more than they can bear.

This loss can more than wipe away any gains that the trader may have seen, and eat deeply into their equity, and perhaps even put them out of trading altogether.

I have seen traders allow just one bad trade to literally eat away almost every dollar of equity in their account. It doesn’t matter how great of a strategy this trader had, and no matter how well-heeled his plan may have been; if you can’t manage your risk your hope of consistent long-term profitability is limited, at best.

In trading, you have to learn to lose before you can ever truly win. In this article, we teach you how to lose properly.

Why is losing necessary?

Point blank – you don’t know the future. Neither does any other person on the planet Earth.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t forecast price movements; millions of people do this every day through banks, hedge funds, and as retail traders. But rather, you have to see each trade as an idea, or an opportunity; and like many opportunities in life, this idea simply may not work and you have to be able to do the correct thing when you get to that point.

And the only correct thing to do when you realize you are wrong is to cease being wrong and start being right! The way to be right is to close the position.

I know this can be difficult to close a trade that's already eaten into you; after all – if you liked the idea at your entry price, and it moves against you – the idea might look even better at a cheaper price!

This is the most dangerous logic in the field of trading. Remember hearing the stories about ‘The London Whale?’

He built up such a large position trading at one of the ‘Too Big to Fail’ banks, and as the position moved against him, he couldn’t come to grips with realizing the loss… so he bought more…. And then even more.

And the same thing that happens to most retail traders happened to one of the largest banks in the world. Losses in the BILLIONS were eventually taken, the bank was fined IN THE BILLIONS, and those traders may even be facing criminal charges in the not-too-distant future.