Is Long Term Care insurance a good idea? Yes, but it may cost you.

Dying is the most certain reality of human life, but perhaps the most unknowable. And as America continues to age, the issue of how we pay for the care we’ll need before death is becoming a crisis.

Nearly three-quarters of all Americans who reach the age of 65 will need some form of long-term care in their senior years, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services – 20% for longer than five years.

Such care is incredibly costly: Nationally, the median tab for a month of assisted-living facility care was $4,500 in 2021, while a month of nursing-home care cost a median of $7,900.

But few of us are prepared for it: only about 7 million Americans, or 1 in 10 Baby Boomers, have some sort of long-term care insurance. Some projections suggest that more than half of all middle-income seniors will not have sufficient financial resources for the care they will need.

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What is the biggest drawback of long-term care insurance?

How to pay for long-term care is “probably one of the hardest decisions that the boomers and the Gen-X generation will have to deal with,” said Adam E. Block, a professor of health policy and management at New York Medical College.

Horror stories abound, and probably scare many Americans away from long-term care insurance. Many people have seen their premiums surge, in some cases to unaffordable levels. One insurance company went bust when it turned out their calculations about how much it would cost to cover policyholders who are living longer, sicker lives fell well short.

The same unknowns make planning for end-of-life care seem formidable for many families. “It is a high-risk, high-cost event that occurs at an undetermined point in time in the future,” Block said. Also uncertain: “how much the costs of care are going to inflate” over the decades you pay into a policy?

Still, given the expense, it’s better to bite the bullet early. As Vance Barse, a financial planner who founded Your Dedicated Fiduciary, puts it, “I don’t introduce long-term care insurance simply to introduce it. I have witnessed firsthand the impact that these costs can have on an estate.”

Bonnie Burns, who’s known as a national policy expert on long-term care, adds that end-of-life care struggles are “more universal than we realize because when it’s happening to people, they don't like to talk about it.”

But here are a few options.

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