Hiring a debt collector to enforce loan to friend, family

Juan Rodriguez/CreditCards.com

Juan Rodriguez/CreditCards.com

Would you sic a debt collector on a friend or relative? Despite the emotional cost, some people do, and there’s a small sector of the debt collection industry willing to tackle this ugly job.

While there are no firm statistics on how often private individuals turn to debt collectors to collect on interpersonal loans, problems are common with loans to friends and family. One such form of lending is co-signing, commonly used when an individual agrees to be the backup on a loan for a friend or relative. A 2016 CreditCards.com poll found almost 4 in 10 co-signed deals go bad, leaving the co-signer on the hook for repayment. About a quarter of co-signers say their experience damaged the relationship with the person they co-signed for.

If a personal loan that has gone delinquent, and appeals for repayment have gone unheeded, where do you turn? Some debt collectors will take on small jobs.

Friends and family loans common, but risky
Barbara Brown, a stay-at-home mom from Chicago, found herself nearly out $32,000 after lending money to a family member. “My sister begged me to help with back mortgage so she didn’t lose her house,” says Brown. “I couldn’t say no to her in that situation. I had her write me a promise note that said she would give me back everything from her husband’s bonus that he was getting in six months.”

The due date came and went. “I found out they paid other people back, not me. I didn’t even know there were other people!” Brown tried to set up a payment plan with her sister and brother-in-law, but her “zillions” of phone calls, texts and emails were left unanswered. “I knew they had money because they had so much stuff – like three cars – and he has a very good sales job. I couldn’t sleep at night I was so mad and upset. That money was supposed to go for my own kids’ college. After nine months of not even a penny, my husband convinced me to get a collector.”

The Browns hired a law firm specializing in debt collections. After what she says were just a few calls, she received everything her sister borrowed, minus a $500 fee from the law firm. “I don’t know what they said, but I’m glad I did it,” says Brown. “No regrets. I could not afford to lose that money.”

The swift resolution Brown experienced is not surprising, says Jared Schiff, president of Schiff Debt Recovery Group, out of Columbus, Ohio. “In my experience, a collector’s phone call is a lot more successful than when we send a letter. It gives thrust. You get the debtor on the phone, you see what’s going on, and a give a ‘Hey, by the way, if we don’t collect we will take it to court. We don’t want to go down that road and you don’t either because of attorney and court costs.’ It’s called a talk-off; an industry term for the rap.”