Your company gives you an early retirement offer, should you take it?

Dear Pete,

My employer just came to me with an early retirement offer, as they’re struggling due to the economic downturn. I’m 62 years old, while my husband is 63, and together we have about $1.6 million in retirement accounts. I’m the primary breadwinner in my family, and my current income is $70,000 of our $110,000 household income. We don’t have any debt, and live very frugally. We need only about $3,000 a month, all in. The offer would pay me $50,000 to retire immediately, and they would pay our health insurance until we’re eligible for Medicare. We’re currently not drawing on Social Security retirement yet. Should I take it and just focus on spending time with the grandkids?

Elizabeth, Detroit

Early-retirement packages will be all the rage in the coming months, and each one has the ability to convince a person, otherwise unprepared for retirement, that they should retire. Fortunately, Elizabeth, this is not the case with you.

Between your husband’s income, Social Security, and the income you can safely and repeatedly generate from your retirement assets, you could generate somewhere between $8,000 to $10,000 per month. Given you’re a self-described frugalista, the real key is deciding what sources of income to tap first, and what income sources to save for later.

Set an appointment with a financial planner, and ask her to put together an income strategy based on your health and other factors. And the fact they’re paying for your health care coverage solves yet another usually tough problem.

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As much as I want to make your question about math, I think the bigger issue for you doesn’t involve math. Why? Because the math of your situation has made your situation not about math. In other words, you can easily retire today, with or without the $50,000 early retirement sweetener. Therefore, the real question is whether you’re emotionally and socially prepared to retire.

Retirement is not an extended vacation. It’s not a day off followed by several more days off. It is an entirely different stage of life. Just like going to college, getting married, having children, and becoming empty-nesters challenge every ounce of your psyche, so does the completion of your work career.

Recognizing the gravity of life change is vital to thriving on the other side of it.

One of the most impactful aspects of America’s willingness to discuss and acknowledge mental health over the last decade or so has been the normalization of checking in on your own mental health when major life events occur. Yes, retiring after decades of work is a wonderful and momentous occasion, but it can also play some games with your feelings of self-worth and accomplishment.