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Companies like Apple, Facebook, and Google are offering female employees the chance to freeze their eggs.
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The policy is meant to give employees more freedom to pursue family planning according to their own timeline.
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Critics say the policy sends the message to employees that work is more important than family.
Among the many perks employees enjoy at tech companies like Apple, Facebook, and Google, including extended maternity leave, death benefits, and free beer, oocyte cryopreservation — egg-freezing — is among the most controversial.
The benefit is meant to help younger female employees who may not want kids in their 20s, but don't want all the risks that come with delaying childbirth into their 30s and sometimes 40s. It follows the larger demographic trend of millennial women delaying childbirth to focus on their careers. For the first time in human history, women in their 30s are having more kids than women in their 20s.
"Unfortunately, our hearts' desire and our desire for lifestyle choice is very different than our biology," Susan Hertzberg, CEO of the fertility company Prelude, told Business Insider.
Recognizing this desire, tech companies happily spend tens of thousands of dollars per employee to offer the perk, claiming the high cost is worth employees' peace of mind. Critics, however, argue the policy sends the wrong message to women — namely, that work is more important than family, and women can't have both at the same time.
Egg-freezing, while well-meaning, perpetuates a broken system that incentivizes women to stay chained to their jobs, these critics claim.
Egg-freezing becomes all the rage
For decades into the early 21st century, egg-freezing was an experimental procedure. Only women using it for medical purposes had access, which was still limited.
Then, in 2012, the American Society for Reproductive Medicine lifted the "experimental" label from egg-freezing, since the process had become refined enough to render it safe and effective for using freshly harvested eggs for in-vitro fertilization.
It only took two years after that for Silicon Valley companies to begin offering egg-freezing to their employees. In 2014, Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg heard from a female employee with cancer that she couldn't afford to freeze her eggs; nor could she convince her insurance provider to cover the cost. Without egg-freezing, she and her partner risked never having kids of their own, due to the risks posed by her cancer drugs.
"I talked about it with our head of HR, and said, 'God we should cover this,'" Sandberg told Bloomberg in 2015. "And then we looked at each other and said, 'Why would we only cover this for women with cancer, why wouldn't we cover this more broadly?'"