How to Handle Debt Collectors: Everything You Need to Know

Debt collectors keep calling? Here's all the info you need to deal with them.

Man in suit standing in doorway glaring at woman.
Man in suit standing in doorway glaring at woman.

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If you've ever dealt with a debt collector, then you know that they can make your life absolutely miserable. They call you nonstop, they're always trying to get money out of you, and you're constantly reminded of the debt you have hanging over your head.

But here's the thing about debt collectors: When you know what your rights are and how to negotiate your debt, it makes the entire process a lot easier. Since they're not about to tell you all their secrets, here's the scoop on how to handle the dreaded debt collector.

How debt collection works

When you have a bill that's past due, the creditor can either try to get you to pay themselves or send the bill to a collection agency. If they send the bill to collections, there are two ways it can work:

  • The creditor sells the debt to the collection agency, at which point the collection agency owns the debt.

  • The creditor hires the collection agency to collect for them in exchange for a cut of the debt.

Once your debt is in the hands of a collection agency, they'll do their best to get you to pay.

Wondering how far past due your bill must be before it will get turned over to a collection agency? That all depends on the creditor. Technically, creditors can send a debt to collections as soon as it's past due, but most will wait at least a few months and try to collect it on their own.

Where to start when a debt collector contacts you

If you've been contacted by a debt collector, the very first thing you should do is ask them to verify the debt in writing. Then tell them you don't want to speak to them further until you've received that verification.

Debt collectors are required to provide verification of your debt within five days. Once you have that written verification, you can check whether the debt is legit and dispute it within 30 days if it isn't.

This is also a good way to weed out scam artists. There are plenty of shady companies out there that will try to get you to pay them money right away for some made-up debt. Don't let them intimidate you. If they won't verify the debt in writing, then they're not legit.

Next, check the date of the debt and compare that to the statute of limitations on debt in your state. If your debt is past the statute of limitations, then you don't need to pay it.

One crucial thing to remember about statutes of limitations is that in some states, the statute of limitations will reset if you make any sort of payment on your debt. Debt collectors will sometimes ask you to make a small payment "in good faith" when they first speak with you. You should never do this, because that could end up making an expired debt legally valid again. Verify the validity of the debt first, and then you can move on to negotiating a payment.